My Book is Helping Rescued Beagles in Nevada

 

A few weeks ago I received a note from a company that had discovered my website and wanted to know how they might be able to participate in helping dogs find homes.

The company is called Royal Ramps and as you might guess, they make ramps for pets. (Not any old ramp. They are really well made. And they look nice too!)

I told them that I have dozens of animal shelters and rescue groups around the country that love “What to Expect When Adopting a Dog” and were itching to be able to give them to new dog parents.

The owner’s response? My dog is a rescue and we love supporting rescue and would love to donate a bunch! How do we get started?

Royal Ramps is located in Nevada and it made sense that they donate to an amazing organization in Nevada called Southern Nevada Beagle Rescue Foundation (SNBRF).

“Whatever puppies need, we want them to get it. Being a great pet parent is the most crucial thing to an animal’s well-being and Royal Ramps is proud to be able to donate What To Expect When Adopting a Dog to local Las Vegas rescues.” – Matthew Delaney, Royal Ramps

I told SNBRF that they would be receiving a shipment of books and they are super excited too.

I created a little sticker for the front of the book so that the new doggie parents get to see the Royal Ramps logo and know that the books were generously donated.

Here’s what SNBRF had to say:

“Everyone should read this book, it’s so packed with information that adoption is sure to lead to long term success with this in hand.”– Regina Harman, Southern Nevada Beagle Rescue Foundation

Here’s a little more about Royal Ramps: Our products tower in quality above our competitors thanks to our use of Industrial-Grade High-Density Extra Firm Foam which, although lightweight and easy to lift and move, is 50% denser than our competitors for the ultimate in durability and stability. The washable zip-on covers are made from 100% polyester micro-filament furniture-grade upholstery fabric which is impervious to stain. Our products are protected by US patent and all made in the USA.

And more about SNBRF: The mission of Southern Nevada Beagle Rescue Foundation is to rescue, foster, rehabilitate and place as many distressed beagles as possible.

You can, of course, learn more on their websites.

Thanks Matthew at Royal Ramps for your dedication to the wellbeing of dogs. And thank you, Regina at SNBRF for your giant heart and all the dogs whose lives you save.

A Puppy Party?

 

My Team Kindness website has an all stars page highlighting individuals or groups who have read the JJ books or participated in a Team Kindness program. While all of the photos are special, here’s why the one of Zoey reading to a service dog at the Boulder Library’s “Pages and Paws” program is special to me.

Zoey is the daughter of my college buddy, Rich, and we reconnected a few years ago via Facebook. We saw each other at a concert last year and again last week when my daughter and I were visiting colleges (wow, that went fast!) in Colorado.

Rich and his wife Nancy have been involved in animal rescue for years including working and volunteering at the SPCA in upstate New York. They have passed down their love of animals to Zoey as well as compassion toward all animals- not just pets.

While in Colorado, I got to meet Zoey in person! We had dinner together (nope- I totally forgot to get a photo) and she told me all about the birthday party she has planned.

She is turning 8 in a couple of weeks and is hosting a puppy party! But instead of having live puppies, each one of her attending friends will get their own stuffed doggy upon arrival. Each friend will go to “stations” where they will make a collar, an article of clothing and then decorate a carrier. When they leave, she will sign an adoption paper. How sweet!

Plus, as an added bonus, they will all go home with a copy of JJ The American Street Dog and How He Came to Live in Our House.

Thanks, Rich and Nancy for being great examples for the next generation. Zoey has a huge heart and you are helping to instill humane values in her and her friends. Sounds like an awesome party too. Have fun and Happy Birthday Zoey!

For more information about the JJ the American Street Dog books, click HERE. These books appeal to children five to nine years old with their colorful illustrations and engaging story. They follow the story of JJ, a dog who went from living on the street to living a happy life with a new family. The books teach that adopting a rescue animal is a win-win for everyone involved and help pet loving families teach their children about patience, consistency, kindness, responsibility and unconditional love – just some of the important values parents and educators endeavor to impart in school age children.

Baa Baa White Sheep Have you Any Wool?

 

I just celebrated a big birthday and my sister and brother wanted to find the perfect gift for me. What to get though? They know I love animals and they wanted to be creative, so they got me a sheep.

Wait, what? They got you a what? Yep- you read that correctly, a SHEEP!

No, she’s not grazing in my backyard- I live in Los Angeles with a postage stamp sized backyard and I have a drought tolerant garden. Hardly a proper grazing meadow for a sheep.

Rather, there is a co-op for farmers that supplement care of their flock through an organization called Rent Mother Nature. So I now am leasing a sheep for the spring. She will be sheared in April and I will receive a beautiful wool blanket in August!

I was a little concerned about the sheep’s welfare and I’m happy to report that Rent Mother Nature shared a little about how they care for their flock and how they carefully shear them.  They sent me the first of my three progress reports and I learned that my sheep lives in Oregon! The photo below is of a sheep from my flock (ok- I only have one sheep but still. This city girl is loving this!).

This breed of sheep is called Poll (hornless) Rambouillets and they are the finest merino. They originated in Spain, then France’s Louis XVI purchased 359 sheep from King Charles III of Spain in 1786 and they were first imported to the US in 1840. Interesting stuff! (If you want to learn more, email me and I’ll copy the letter they sent to me and share it with you.) I learned about their wool, their lambs and how well trained the folks are who do the shearing so that they don’t nick the delicate skin.

Around the same time that my sibs got me my very own sheep, my sister posted that she had helped out with some new lambs at a friend’s farm (photo above). How lucky is she! She lives in Vermont where there really is grass to graze so there’s no sheep rental for her. They get to have actual sheep.

And check out this incredible aerial video that was shared with me of sheep being herded in New Zealand.

If you look carefully, you can see the dogs doing the herding. They’re doing the job they are meant to do. Gorgeous on so many levels.

I’m thrilled and delighted about my sheep and can’t wait to get my next progress report.

Rent Mother Nature also offers cow leases, Date Palm tree leases, Peach tree leases and other options too. So if you are looking for a unique gift, check it out. Obviously, I’m excited about it and I’ll show you my blanket when I get it in August.

My Son, My Hero

My kids are quite often my heroes. This week it’s my son.

He started the week doing a service learning day with school. There were five
choices- working with kids at a nearby  school in a few different capacities, working with the elderly, and helping take care of dogs in a shelter environment.

Guess which one he chose? He thought they all sounded cool, but the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.

The group is called Adopt and Shop and there are a few very cool things about this organization. First, they allow teenagers to help out when supervised. Second, the “shop” part in their name is because they sell items to not only help raise funds for their animal rescue services, but the items are helpful for new pet parents as well.

As an aside, they also have a Catty Wagon which is a tricked out truck that brings kitten adoptions to you! Watch the video below. It’s clever.

He really became my hero though on Monday after I picked him up from school. Driving home, in the middle of a busy intersection we saw a scared little dog. His mom was trying to catch him but he kept running out into the street. Somehow, after enough horns beeped and enough people corralled him, he ran back up onto the grass. Zander jumped out of the car and said “I’m going to help” before I could protest. I pulled the car over and by the time I got to the bush where the pup was cornered, his mom was able to grab his collar.

Zander was wise enough to ask the mom “if I pick him up, will he bite me?” This way, he would know whether it was safe for him to be the one to pick him up or not.

Our hearts were all pounding in our chests. It was touch and go there for a moment when that little dog was in the middle of the intersection. Zander didn’t hesitate for a moment. He saw that dog and knew he needed to help.  I reminded him that in this case, it was fine, but always to consider the situation and make sure that he stay safe too.

It’s usually me that comes home and says “guess what I did today? I helped a dog find his or her way home.” But that week, it was my son. Yes, he’s my hero.

Ziba

Roll Out the Carpet for the Academy Awards!

I’ve been doing super fun stuff lately. This week I was invited to attend the Academy Awards Red Carpet Celebrity Style Lounge! The invitees are award nominees and other actors, musicians, fashion and wardrobe designers, producers and directors of current films and television.

Ingo Rademacher

Sonia Rockwell

Each year the event is held in part to encourage donations to a charity. This year the charity recipient was Best Friends Animal Society and I was asked to represent pet rescue products! The photo above is one of the Best Friends Ambassador dogs, Ziba. He was once homeless but was adopted by a Best Friends employee and got to come to the event! OMG- love that dog. Look at those ears!

The majority of the products and services are beauty related, but some are tech, travel and even condos! It sure is an eclectic mix. Three of my favorite items were VivaJENNZ hidden wine purse (you’ve got to check this out), Dorey Aromatherapy,  and a gorgeous coffee table photo book about native California gardens called “The Gottlieb Native Garden… a California Love Story.”

Felix Solis – Red Carpet Style

Maria Conchita Alonso

The attendees perused each booth and were gifted a small gift. I was excited about the number of people who love animals and support rescue either a little bit (they would if they were getting a pet) or a lot (they have rescued a pet!).  These folks all stopped by my booth and were excited about the books I was showcasing. I loved sharing my books and stories with people I wouldn’t normally connect with. Thanks to everyone who shared their animal and rescue stories with me.

Bonnie Morgan

Gabriel Bateman – Benji

It was fun posing with the talent and snapping photos with them. They were so gracious to hold my books and many have already shared on their social media. I love taking photos but I’m a terrible selfie photographer (as if you couldn’t tell). Here’s a few shots. Do you recognize any of these beautiful faces from your favorite tv shows and films? (Check out 12 year old Gabriel Bateman. So poised. He is set to star in the upcoming remake of Benji!)

Massi Furlan

Find even more on my Instagram @DianerSolomon and Facebook https://www.facebook.com/PetsPeoplePlanetConnection/!

Thanks Ziba for the smooch. It made my day!

Ziba

2017 Dog Writers Association Awards: And The Winner Is…

 

I recently attended the Dog Writers Association of America (DWAA) awards this year as a nominee for What to Expect When Adopting a Dog. I felt very fortunate. While I was there, I got to meet the other great nominees- people who write about rescue, military dogs, service dogs and many many other dog related topics.

Before I tell you about the DWAA awards, I want to tell you a little about the Westminster Dog Show. They may seem unrelated, but it turns out, the two events were held concurrently.

Many of the Westminster show dogs were staying in the event hotel. While I love all dogs, dog shows have never been my thing, Of course, it’s great to see the different breeds. And I saw a few incredibly gorgeous, well-groomed dogs in the lobby. Most were running past me so I couldn’t get a proper shot, but I did get the big guy above. (He doesn’t look like he moves too fast when he moves. But fortunately he was laying down.)

Some of my dog-loving writer colleagues did get to attend part of the dog show and festivities and I encourage you to check out Fidose of Reality on Facebook and Instagram and Bark & Swagger on Instagram for more photos and videos of the show (and pet fashion too!).

But enough about the Westminster dogs. I’m sure you are anxious to hear more about the writing conference and who won in the category I which I was nominated – books about rescue or adoption.

The day started out with presentations from professional bloggers Carol Bryant of Fidose of Reality and Maggie Marton of Oh My Dog Blog who spoke about The Digital Revolution. Next, Amy Tokic, the editor of PetGuide.com discussed Joining the Online Pet Community and author Lisa Begin-Kruysman taught us about Creating Engaging Proposals.

During the afternoon session, the winners for each book nomination category were announced. My book did not win the books about rescue and adoption category. However, the book that did win titled My Old Dog is really fabulous and rather deserving.  The other three books nominated in my category are gorgeous and show different aspects of humane treatment of animals. They are all worthy of the prize and here is more about each of them:

My Old Dog by Laura Teresa Coffey                                            

 “No Dog Should Die Alone” was the attention-grabbing — and heart-stirring — headline of journalist Laura T. Coffey’s TODAY show website story about photographer Lori Fusaro’s work with senior shelter pets. While generally calm, easy, and already house-trained, these animals often represent the highest-risk population at shelters.

Goodbye Bad Guys by Kate J Kuligowski

By joining together to form an animal cruelty task force in their community, Bernalillo County law enforcement and animal control officers have reduced reported animal cruelty by more than forty percent. This step-by-step training manual presents all the organizational and training information communities would need to easily form their own animal cruelty task force, without additional cost to the taxpayers. It’s a win-win situation.

Beyond Fight or Flight by Sunny Weber

Photo courtesy of Rhonda Cassidy

Fearful dogs can be saved and have quality lives, free of anxiety. This book will help 1) you grow in compassion, 2) your pup find peace, and 3) bring both of you to a warm appreciation for each other.

I’m so glad I was able to attend the DWAA event. There were numerous categories represented for magazine, newspaper and online articles and blogs as well as books, graphics, and other media along with special prizes and awards. Having the Westminster show right nearby was a bonus and I loved meeting two photographers who came to photograph the Westminster dogs! The photo to the right is of “Angus the Clumber Spaniel” and rumor has it everyone loves him. This photo is courtesy of Rhonda Cassidy one of the photographers I met at DWAA and you can check out her website.

Congratulations to all of the nominees and winners of the 2017 Dog Writers Association of America awards!

Team Kindness – Compassionate Kids Changing the World

 

What is Team Kindness?

I realized that not everyone in my Pets People Planet Connection world is familiar with Team Kindness. In my opinion, kindness is more important today than ever. So here’s a bit about it:

After I became a Certified Humane Education Specialist (CHES), I began writing the JJ the American Street Dog children’s book series. You may be familiar with JJ the American Street Dog and How He Came to Live in Our House, and JJ Goes to Puppy Class.

My friend and colleague, Virginia Hamilton who is also a CHES, a teacher and founder of Canine Commandos and Aim Humane created a lesson plan to accompany JJ The American Street Dog. The lesson plan satisfies required standards for all public schools offering MANY compassion and humane based activities.

I then started Team Kindness so that groups or classrooms can optionally receive a certificate of completion (among other goodies) once any of the activities in the lesson plan are completed. The benefit is that the children are acknowledged for their budding compassionate leadership, plus bringing home a certificate connects the family with the humane lessons learned during the school day.

Classrooms, groups like boy or girl scouts, or even home school programs play a huge role in educating kids about empathy, kindness, volunteerism and making a difference in your community.

Team Kindness offers free downloads of coloring pages, word searches and crossword puzzles plus many other resources.

And I love reading my books to children in person locally, or via Skype anywhere in the country (or around the world for that matter!) Here’s a photo of the group of kids at Camp Kindness (coincidence!) in Michigan after our Skype author visit program.

Would your school or group like to participate in a Team Kindness activity or an author visit? Learn more by visiting the website, or contacting me directly!

Pupsaver Gives Back to Rescue Pets and Their Parents

 

Pupsaver Dog Safety Car SeatOne of my greatest joys in writing What to Expect When Adopting a Dog was connecting with the many pet professionals that shared their expertise with me.

Once the book was complete, I started sharing it with shelters and rescue groups in my network- another joy. They can’t wait to share it with the individuals and families that come through their doors in search of a new pup. They know that the information in the book would make it easier for prospective and new pet parents, and ultimately for the dogs.

But the challenge for many of these organizations is money. They work so hard to save lives yet it takes many people and is very costly. So how can they get my book into the hands of the folks it can help without tying up precious, lifesaving funds?

Enter Pupsaver–  one of the amazing companies I discovered while writing What to Expect When Adopting a Dog. They make, among other things, dog safety car seats that help protect your pup when they travel in the car with you. Their rear-facing design catches your dog upon impact and acts as a protective barrier to prevent contact with hard surfaces.

Pupsaver supports rescue in a big way and they were super excited to be mentioned in my book. Here’s what they decided to do to give back and help educate new pet parents.

What to Expect When Adopting a Dog Bookpupsaver-logo 2First, they donated copies of my book to the Greenville Humane Society in South Carolina. Greenville is now able to hand out free copies to new dog families when they adopt from their shelter. With a copy of What to Expect When Adopting a Dog in hand, new pet parents now have answers to many of the questions that come up. And in the month of February, Pupsaver will offer a free paperback copy to anyone who purchases one of their car seats from their website!

Please check out the Pupsaver seat to see if it’s right for you and your dog. Whether you bring your dog on car rides frequently or just occasionally, safety should always be first. If you’ve been considering a safety seat for your dog anyway, now is a great time because you will get a free copy of What to Expect When Adopting a Dog too!

 

Is Your Child Savvy and Safe Around Dogs?

 

Teach Your Child to Act Responsibly Around DogsYour dog is smart. They look for a leader, or leaders in the family. Adults generally exude more authority, so a new dog usually takes queues from us. Children have a different energy, and dogs behave differently around them. Dogs can ignore children,  or see them as competition. Kids aren’t the “pet parent” and dogs know it.

Since dogs may perceive kids as lower in the hierarchy, several problems can arise. The dog may try to physically push them around. It can escalate to growling, especially when a child is near food or toys, or even baring his teeth and biting when a child approaches or tries to play with the dog. According to the CDC, most dog bites occur in kids ages 5-9.

Teach Your Kid to Be a Responsible Pet “Parent”It’s important to teach a child how to appropriately interact with the family dog (these skills are great for meeting strange dogs too).

— Teach kids basic ground rules.  For example, they should not run past dogs, pull their tail, yell at, taunt, try to hug them, or stare into their eyes. You should also teach your child to move with intention around the dog. Help them learn how their behavior might be interpreted by the dog.

— A good approach that is age appropriate for any family is having children join a family walk. This way, the dog can learn to recognize the child as one of the “pack”. This is a good time for your child to observe canine body language as your dog explores the world. At some point, while you are holding the leash, the child can hold onto it too. With your supervision, and readiness to take over if the situation becomes too overwhelming, older children can walk the dog themselves.

— Get kids involved in training. Younger children can ask a dog to sit before being pet or giving them a treat. If the child is older, they can teach fun “tricks” like shake and roll over. Joining you at training class if allowed by the instructor is a good way for children to learn from the pros. This will all help build a bond between the dog and child and ideally allow your dog to respect your child.

— Teach kids that dogs communicate differently than people. They can’t speak so they communicate with body language. Teach kids to read the “warning signs” when their dog is getting stressed. It can be complicated so it’s ultimately up the parent to spot the signs but there are some simple things you can teach kids.

Some signs that kids can easily recognize are growling, stiffening and freezing, yawning at times other than when they are just waking up, and being able to see the whites of their eyes. If a dog is doing any of these things, the child should be taught to leave the dog alone and let an adult know. A super easy and fun way to teach kids what relaxed versus stressed body language looks like is to have them watch this video from Stop the 77:

 

— Older children can start getting involved in day-to-day care. Dogs can learn to see children as someone that provides and cares for them. Kids can learn to brush or feed a dog, which can be a great bonding experience, all under close supervision of course.

Helping kids to properly interact with a dog will help keep everyone safe and happy. I highly recommend you spend some time at the TheFamilyDog.com and Stopthe77.com  where you will find the best videos that teach kids the dos and don’ts of interacting with dogs.

What to Expect When Adopting a Dog BookAnd remember, your child should be taught to always ask permission before petting a stranger’s dog.

For more information about bringing a new dog into your home, pick up a copy of my book What to Expect When Adopting a Dog. This book is a guide to successful dog adoption for every family and offers expert advice from rescue specialists, veterinarians, dog parents, and pet professionals. Consider it a one-stop shop for all dog-related questions, before, during, and after adoption.

How My Pets Saved Me From Bullying

 

Little girl with cat

My sister Julie with Kougle the cat circa 1973

When I was a little girl I was bullied. A lot. I was small, sweet, naive and an easy target. In middle school, in addition to the taunting, the big tough girls threatened to beat me up. It was scary and I didn’t have the emotional tools to deal with it (Who does?).

I thought… what did I do to deserve this? Will I survive?  It didn’t seem anyone quite understood the torture. I know middle school can be tough for almost everyone. I also know my experience was painful.

So I cried when I got home. And listened to music. And told my cat, Kougle everything. He understood. He would be waiting under my bed. Willing to listen and be with me. And he purred. It was his honor and duty and he loved his job.

He didn’t care that I didn’t have the right things to say back to the bullies, or that I said and did stupid stuff ALL THE TIME trying to be accepted. He just loved me for me. He was grateful for the warm home, the stroking, the food and the love I gave back to him.

Obviously, I survived middle school. I am forever grateful to Kougle. After college I adopted a kitten my sister couldn’t keep (she now fosters kittens).  Once I was settled, we added another cat and then dogs. Having pets is one of my greatest joys.

I work from home by design. I don’t have the overhead of office space, plus I get to be with my dogs all day.  From time to time I think about spending an afternoon working in a coffee shop (which I have done in the past) but I love being home with my dogs.

I take breaks and play with them or we go for walks.

I find it comforting with them here. It happens infrequently, but from time to time both of them are out of the house. It is eerily quiet.

Dogs hanging out on the couch

My dogs are not really allowed on the sofa

I love walking past them and rubbing an ear, or a belly even just for a moment. The science is right, petting an animal calms us down. And I’m not just talking about the times when I’m upset about something. Even when everything is great, there is a comfort in their warm furry bodies.

Yes, it takes work and commitment. But they are so simple really. Give them the basics and some love and everyone is happy.

January 24th is Change a Pets Life Day. I know in my bones that all of my pets have changed MY life. They have offered me companionship, taught me compassion and love and in return I care for and love them.

My dogs listen to my stories and they know when I’m sad. I get extra kisses and snuggles on those days. Plus we take walks together which is a great stress reliever.

valoffice-dogrevI can’t imagine my life without them. Since I rescued all of my dogs (and a few of our cats), I know I changed THEIR lives too. They are no longer on the streets, or chained in a backyard. I’d say they’ve got it pretty good. But so do I.

Have you ever changed a pet’s life? If you’d like to but don’t know where to begin, you will find tons of life changing information in my book What to Expect When Adopting a Dog.